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KNOW WHO TO MARRY

By dovo • 4 months ago • 11371 views • 4263 comments

Make yourself marry able before getting into marriage

Carry her along in your vision

*when couples chase life together makes marriages stand

*in love u find submit ion so bring love before submitting

*when a woman know that her opinion does not count, they will be rebellious

 Eph: 5 vs 1- end

Colo: 3 vs 9

*Always worship and pray. Marry someone who have develop a love for God. someone who have hunger for God. 


*always forgive each other. Offence must surely come. Create a spirit of forgiveness or don't get married. Thus is the key problem to every marriage. FORGIVENESS!


* RESPECT. Respect yourself or you will not respect others. If u insult someone, UV insulted your self.


*HUMANITY. Proud will make you lose what you have. Always appreciate your partner and tell him/her that he/she is beautiful that your Love him/her. Appreciate what he or she does for you. Appreciate her food,clothe,makeup,smile... 

Appreciate his clothes,bears, gifts, body everything.


*LEARN TO YIELD(1 CORTH. 7 vs ...): be in agreement with your husband or wife. Do deprive him/her s3x. It is not right to embark on a fasting without an agreement with your husband or just have s3x with your husband IT IS NOT WRONG is not wrong. COUPLES THAT ALWAYS HAVE s3x CAN NEVER BREAK UP. No virgin in marriage

******NOTE AT OLD AGE BODY,LOST ARE GONE******


FRIENDSHIP: 

Infidelity drives secrets

You must communication with your wife or hubby, tell him or her about people that like, friends, wants,loves you outside. YES SHARE EVERYTHING and laugh over it with your husband or wife

* Do not be over serious


ADAPTABILITY: 

*learn to adapt because there are problem that can not be solved so ADAPT

*learn to compromise (sacrifice) for your family,business,phone anything thing that you need to give up.


* Learn to be generous 

* learn to be serviceable


     THINGS WOMEN COMPLAIN ABOUT

No time for me

Does not love me 

 

        THINGS WOMEN LOVE

to be hugged

Taken out

Spending for them

Buying gifts


         THINGS MEN COMPLAIN ABOUT

She can't manage

She is lazy 


.....how to solve some of this problems,

1. Women please have your own source of income to be buying something for yourself and for her/him

2. Guys don't claim what you are not(be plain so that you can help each other)

3. Please marry your friend

4. Develop TRUST


*A WISE WOMAN IS AN ADDED ADVANTAGE TO A WISE MAN*


......everything you need to know about who to marry is in the bible please Study your bible


FAITHFULNESS: if you cannot control fornication as a single, you will definitely fall into adultery. 

....what if the man or wife traveled for business

....or u both are told to stay clear from s3x for medical purposes 


SELF CONTROL:

***control your hand

***control your mouth

*** ATTACK THE PROBLEM NOT THE PERSON. 

....PLEASE learn to bare. Have understanding, tolerate, be accommodating, 

Because troubles must come because everyone has flaws.


DEVELOP WISDOM: good woman makes her home through wisdom, bad woman brings her home down

 ....anytime you have issues with your wife she will always want to go. Please it is your duty as HER HUSBAND TO MAKE HER STAY.


DISCRETION: learn to settle your issues with your man or wife your self's with taking it out. Because your spreading your dirty pants outside 

1. Don't ever go your parents. Because you and them will never see your own flaws but your husband or wife's wrong. 

2. Be smart to know and meet someone that your husband and wife totally respect 


DO NOT SEEK ADVICE FROM A SINGLE, FLIPPANT, and a DIVORCEE:

A single person does not have anything to say

A flippant person will take your issues out and will not solve any problem

A divorcee does not have good marriage no matter the story 


THE BEDROOM IS:

1. A prayer room

2. A court room

3. A LOVE ROOM

.....so be wise enough to utilize your bedroom


KNOWLEDGE: to marry you must have the knowledge(know what marriage is all about)

*Know what keep marriages

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